^^^ Omg, I can relate! All of it!I just have an 'awake-awareness' of the other body in the bed. Unless I'm passed-out, I don't get good sleep with another person there.
Lights are important, sounds are important, temperature is important.
Also... I can be quite Creative during the night and early-morning hours. I can have sudden 'downloads' and if I'm working on a project, it's Better that I get up and respond to and with that 'download' for Creativity, than ignore it.
Ignoring it can even mean that the Quality of the work and flow is affected. There is more Joy in the ease and flow that just pours-out, than the awful struggling of 'trying' to "find" that downloading stream again.
In my last marriage, my spouse had been SOOOO sensitive to 'even my breathing'... He would nudge me, wake me up, and say my 'breathing' bothered him. The fan in the room had bothered him so much that he was up stuffing socks into and around it.
With me too, my feet turn ice-cold. haha.
Nothing like 'shocking' your partner with cold feet.
He used to say he could even feel 'cold' radiating from me. (When I get 'cold' I go hypothermic... I need to make sure I'm adequately warm.. OR, I CANNOT sleep at all. I'm 'awake' all night, and suffering!!
Without judgment... Sometimes it's just GOOD to have 'separateness' -- to function. Doesn't mean the couple doesn't love each other. You NEED your Rest!!!, or you can get sick!
That spouse used to complain that I didn't come to bed?
I 'learned' how to sleep comfortably on a sofa for four years?
Yes, I have a configuration even WITH the Neptune and Uranus (those are square). And my Moon is in-between them BOTH!
Moon H(9)leo sextiles Uranus and Jupiter H8cancer.
Moon 30-degrees from Neptune Libra H10.
Mercury Gem H7 trines Neptune H10, trines 3rd House Cusp!
(extremely tight)
MARS Cancer H7 cj Mercury Gem..
and trines the Neptune out-of-sign.
Mercury and Mars square the Moon
MARS in an exact T-square to IC and MC.
To be Productive (Mars)
Can't be too-cold, too-warm... too-anything?
But Just Right.
So... Those are my "guesses."
Sun Gem in the H6taurus.. another 'environment' house?
Along with IC, and the H3?
awwww-- JUST All of it!!!! LMAO
It's my Birthday-Suit!!!!!!
Princess and the Pea? or is it Goldilocks?